So, it’s been a month. A month and two days since I’ve been a mum of two.
I’ve wanted to update my blog before, but I’ve not really had the time!
My mum arrived about three weeks before Baby V did and she’s still here. She’s planning to leave next week, but I’m doing all that I can to keep her here for longer!
V2 is quite a good baby. He feeds about every four hours. We have good days and bad days. And of course, good nights and bad nights. There are nights he just won’t settle and there are others where he just passes out!
V1 has been… Ok. That’s really the only word I can use to describe him. He’s fine with his brother. He helps me with choosing clothes and changing nappies (providing Octonauts isn’t on) and likes to feel needed. But he has been acting out also.
While LagosDad was here, V1 was getting a lot of attention – they did a lot together. Bus rides, Science Museum, etc. LagosDad left on 11th September and V1 is really missing him. He wasn’t happy to start school. He wasn’t happy to go to the park. He wasn’t happy to do his Kumon, nothing. He has given us all a very rough time. His whole attitude sucked.
He has made me so cross sometimes – but I have to just stop and remind myself… New country, new school, new environment, new sibling, no LagosDad, not as much time with Mama as before. And then I feel like a crap mum!
We’ve had a few visitors come by and see Baby V. During this time V would shout at anyone talking while he was watching TV (including the midwife and health visitor). He would also climb into my lap after I fed Baby V and ask me to burp him (gross) and stroke his hair. Poor guy – it made me feel so guilty that I wasn’t spending enough time with him.
He’s kind of settled down now – he still has his moments, but he has become better.